Why Don't You Get More Sex?

Why Don't You Get More Sex? You...

• Whine about it/the lack of it (vs. talking about your needs)

• Play it "cool" to see if she will initiate it (vs. initiating it lovingly without worry about rejection)

• Act hurt, hoping for her to "make it right" (vs. moving on and being loving and cheerful)

• Don't ask directly for what you want (vs. speaking up for yourself)

• Complain about what she has done/not done lately (vs. requesting something different)

• Wait till bedtime to initiate affection (vs. demonstrating affection early/late)

• Answer in one word answers or grunts and groans (vs. engaging in meaningful conversation with her)

• Make sex a "project" to be completed perfectly (vs. allowing it to unfold based on each other's appetite)

• Skip the relaxed conversation/"I love you" kind of chat (vs. taking the time to learn about HER and HER feelings)

• Yell at the kids (vs. mutually deciding on discipline)